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As adults, we try to develop the character traits that would have rescued our parents.

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Being funny should be an incidental byproduct of trying to get to something truthful, not a destination in itself.

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The dream of the news is that it makes us care about other people and situations. But we cannot identify with people to whom we haven't been introduced. Humans will only respond to art, to people who are skilled in making you care.

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Rage is caused by a conviction, almost comic in its optimistic origins (however tragic in its effects), that a given frustration has not been written into the contract of life.

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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.

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There is no such thing as work-life balance. Everything worth fighting for unbalances your life.

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Once I began to consider everything as being of potential interest, objects released latent layers of value.

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There is real danger of a disconnect between what's on your business card and who you are deep inside, and it's not a disconnect that the world is ready to be patient with.

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At the heart of every frustration lies a basic structure: the collision of a wish with an unyielding reality.

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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.

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It's perhaps easier now than ever before to make a good living; it's perhaps harder than ever before to stay calm, to be free of career anxiety.

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Sublime places repeat in grand terms a lesson that ordinary life typically teaches viciously: that the universe is mightier than we are, that we are frail and temporary and have no alternative but to accept limitations on our will; that we must bow to necessities greater than ourselves.

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We should not be frightened by appearances.

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We don't really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped ... We suffer, therefore we think.

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Writing a book has about it some of the anxiety of telling a joke and having to wait several years to know whether or not it was funny.

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The media insists on taking what someone didn't mean to say as being far closer to the truth than what they did.

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Status Anxiety: A worry, so pernicious as to be capable of ruining extended stretches of our lives, that we are in danger of failing to conform to the ideals of success laid down by our society and that we may as a result be stripped of dignity and respect; a worry that we are currently occupying too modest a rung or are about to fall to a lower one.

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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you're annoyed with them.

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What is a snob? A snob is anybody who takes a small part of you and uses that to come to a complete vision of who you are. That is snobbery.

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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.

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