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The largest part of what we call 'personality' is determined by how we've opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness".

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When I see someone like Richard Dawkins, I see my father. I grew up with that. I'm basically the child of Richard Dawkins.

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Maturity: knowing where you're crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.

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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.

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What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of disappointing others.

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The good parent: someone who doesn't mind, for a time, being hated by their children.

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The activities of drawing, eating and drinking, all involve assimilations by the self of desirable elements from the world, a transfer of goodness from without to within.

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As we write, so we build: to keep a record of what matters to us.

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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.

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Most of us stand poised at the edge of brilliance, haunted by the knowledge of our proximity, yet still demonstrably on the wrong side of the line, our dealings with reality undermined by a range of minor yet critical psychological flaws (a little too much optimism, an unprocessed rebelliousness, a fatal impatience or sentimentality). We are like an exquisite high-speed aircraft which for lack of a tiny part is left stranded beside the runway, rendered slower than a tractor or bicycle.

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We need objects to remind us of the commitments we've made. That carpet from Morocco reminds us of the impulsive, freedom-loving side of ourselves we're in danger of losing touch with. Beautiful furniture gives us something to live up to. All designed objects are propaganda for a way of life.

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You have to be quite heavily invested in someone to do them the honour of telling them you're annoyed with them.

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After 40 (old age for most of man's history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.

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A 'good job' can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.

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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.

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Good books put a finger on emotions that are deeply our own - but that we could never have described on our own.

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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.

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Envy: a confused, tangled guide to one's own ambitions.

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The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.

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We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.

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