Alain de Botton Quotes, Glasses Quotes, Understanding Quotes

The lesson? To respond to the unexpected and hurtful behavior of others with something more than a wipe of the glasses, to see it as a chance to expand our understanding.

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The fear of saying something stupid (which stupid people never have) has censored far more good ideas than bad ones.

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In their different ways, art and philosophy help us, in Schopenhauer's words, to turn pain into knowledge.

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Mental health: having enough safe places in your mind for your thoughts to settle.

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The true nature of bureaucracy may be nowhere more obvious to the observer than in a developing country, for only there will it still be made manifest by the full complement of documents, files, veneered desks and cabinets - which convey the strict and inverse relationship between productivity and paperwork.

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Feeling lost, crazy and desperate belongs to a good life as much as optimism, certainty and reason.

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It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.

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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.

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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?

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Objectively good spaces to work rarely end up being so; in their faultlessness, quiet and well-equipped studios have a habit of rendering the fear of failure overwhelming. Original thoughts are like shy animals. We sometimes have to look the other way - towards a busy street or terminal - before they run out of their burrows.

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Being funny should be an incidental byproduct of trying to get to something truthful, not a destination in itself.

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Unnatural to expect that learning to be happy should be any easier than, say, learning to play the violin or require any less practice.

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It's clear to me that there is no good reason for many philosophy books to sound as complicated as they do.

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Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.

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Many moments in religion seem attractive to me even though I can't believe in any of it.

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Life gives us no such handy markers - a storm comes, and far from this being a harbinger of death and collapse, during its course a person discovers love and truth, beauty and happiness, the rain lashing at the windows all the while.

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Blind impatience is equally evident in the fruit section. Our ancestors might have delighted in the occasional handful of berries found on the underside of a bush in late summer, viewing it as a sign of the unexpected munificence of a divine creator, but we became modern when we gave up on awaiting sporadic gifts from above and sought to render any pleasing sensation immediately and repeatedly available.

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The secular world is full of holes. We have secularized badly.

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Endeavoring to purchase something we think beautiful may in fact be the most unimaginative way of dealing with the longing it excites in us, just as trying to sleep with someone may be the bluntest response to a feeling of love.

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It is perhaps when our lives are at their most problematic that we are likely to be most receptive to beautiful things.

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