Alain de Botton Quotes, Differences Quotes, Despair Quotes

The difference between hope and despair is a different way of telling stories from the same facts.

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The only possible way to begin a book is to tell oneself that its eventual failure is guaranteed — but survivable.

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Curiosity takes ignorance seriously - and is confident enough to admit when it's in the dark. It is aware of not knowing. And then it sets out to do something about it.

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William James once made an acute point about the relationship between happiness and expectation. He argued that satisfaction with ourselves does not require us to succeed in every endeavour. We are not always humiliated by failing; we are humiliated only if we first invest our pride and sense of worth in a given achievement and then do not reach it.

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When Proust urges us to evaluate the world properly, he repeatedly reminds us of the value of modest scenes.

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If our lives are dominated by a search for happiness, then perhaps few activities reveal as much about the dynamics of this quest - in all its ardour and paradoxes - than our travels.

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I am in general a very pessimistic person with an optimistic, day to day take on things. The bare facts of life are utterly terrifying. And yet, one can laugh. Indeed, one has to laugh precisely because of the darkness: the nervous laughter of the trenches.

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Although I don't believe in God, Bach's music shows me what a love of God must feel like.

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A lump rises in our throat at the sight of beauty from an implicit knowledge that the happiness it hints at is the exception.

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Despite the best efforts of critics and the hopes of authors, our tastes in books are probably as inherent & unbudgeable as those in food.

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What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of disappointing others.

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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.

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He was a volatile mixture of confidence and vulnerability. He could deliver extended monologues on professional matters, then promptly stop in his tracks to peer inquisitively into his guest's eyes for signs of boredom or mockery, being intelligent enough to be unable fully to believe in his own claims to significance. He might, in a past life, have been a particularly canny and sharp-tongued royal advisor.

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There is a devilishly direct relationship between the significance of an idea and how nervous we become at the prospect of having to think about it.

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Every time we feel satisfied with what we have, we can be counted as rich, however little we may actually possess.

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Dreams reveal we never quite get 'over' anything: it's all still in there somewhere.

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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude - not a punishment for making money.

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Never too late to learn some embarrassingly basic, stupidly obvious things about oneself.

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One of our major flaws, and causes of unhappiness, is that we find it hard to take note of appreciate and be grateful for what is always around us. We suffer because we lose sight of the value of what is before us and yearn, often unfairly, for the imagined attraction elsewhere.

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Reputation matters so much only because people so seldom think for themselves.

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