Aimee Bender Quotes, Mother Quotes, Children Quotes

Sometimes, she said, mostly to herself, I feel I do not know my children... It was a fleeting statement, one I didn't think she'd hold on to; after all, she had birthed us alone, diapered and fed us, helped us with homework, kissed and hugged us, poured her love into us. That she might not actually know us seemed the humblest thing a mother could admit.

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...a Dorito asks nothing of you, which is its great gift. It only asks that you are not there.

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I knew if I ate anything of hers again, it would lkely tell me the same message: help me, I am not happy, help me -- like a message in a bottle sent in each meal to the eater, and I got it. I got the message.

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But I loved George in part because he believed me; because if I stood in a cold, plain room and yelled FIRE, he would walk over and ask me why.

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But the sky is interesting, it changes all the time.

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and I get refill number three or four and the wine is making my bones loose and it's giving my hair a red sheen and my breasts are blooming and my eyes feel sultry and wise and the dress is water.

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Many kids, it seemed, would find out that their parents were flawed, messed-up people later in life, and I didn't appreciate getting to know it all so strong and early.

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Light is good company, when alone; I took my comfort where I found it, and the warmest yellow bulb in the living-room lamp had become a kind of radiant babysitter all its own.

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…kissing George was a little like rolling in caramel after spending years surviving off rice sticks.

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I don't think so, I don't agree. The most unbearable thing I think by far, she said, is hope.

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While she cut the mushrooms, she cried more than she had at the grave, the most so far, because she found the saddest thing of all to be the simple truth of her capacity to move on.

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I admired that stride; it was like he folded space in two with it.

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My lover is experiencing reverse evolution.

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To see someone you love, in a bad setting, is one of the great barometers of gratitude.

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You try, you seem totally nuts, you go underground.

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I was with them for all of it, but more like an echo than a participant.

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When the light at Vernon turned green, we stepped into the street and George grabbed my hand and the ghosts of our younger selves crossed with us.

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My genes, my love, are rubber bands and rope; make yourself a structure you can live inside. Amen." — Aimee Bender (Willful Creatures: Stories)

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The writing I tend to think of as 'good' is good because it's mysterious.

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I didn’t mind the quiet stretches. It was like we were trying out the idea of being side by side.

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