Alain de Botton Quotes, Age Quotes, Aging Quotes

One's doing well if age improves even slightly one's capacity to hold on to that vital truism: "This too shall pass.

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It should not be Illiers-Combray that we visit: a genuine homage to Proust would be to look at our world through his eyes, not look at his world through our eyes.

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We might have been ready to offer sympathy, but in actuality there were stronger reasons to want to congratulate her for having found such a powerful motive to feel sad. We should have envied her for having located someone without whom she so firmly felt she could not survive, beyond the gate let along in a bare student bedroom in a suburb of Rio. If she had been able to view her situation from a sufficient distance, she might have been able to recognise this as one of the high points in her life.

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The problem isn't so much finding good ideas (there is no shortage) as embedding the ones we have into everyday practice.

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The pleasure we derive from journeys is perhaps dependent more on the mindset with which we travel than on the destination we travel to.

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As an atheist, I think there are lots of things religions get up to which are of value to non-believers - and one of those things is trying to be a bit better than we normally manage to be.

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Only by declaring a book completely finished can one start to see how much remains to be done on it.

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Dreams reveal we never quite get 'over' anything: it's all still in there somewhere.

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Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone - and finding that that's ok with them.

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In the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation.

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Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories: the story of our quest for sexual love and the story of our quest for love from the world.

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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.

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There may be significant things to learn about people by looking at what annoys them most.

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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.

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Maturity: knowing where you're crazy, trying to warn others of the fact and striving to keep yourself under control.

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The moment we cry in a film is not when things are sad but when they turn out to be more beautiful than we expected them to be.

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In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water, the need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.

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Our homes do not have to offer us permanent occupancy or store our clothes to merit the name. To speak of home in relation to a building is simply to recognise its harmony with our own prized internal song. Home can be an airport or a library, a garden or a motorway diner.

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Life gives us no such handy markers - a storm comes, and far from this being a harbinger of death and collapse, during its course a person discovers love and truth, beauty and happiness, the rain lashing at the windows all the while.

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Sweetness is the opposite of machismo, which is everywhere-and I really don't get on with machismo. I'm interested in sensitivity, and weakness, and fear, and anxiety, because I think that, at the end of the day, behind our masks, that's what we are.

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