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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.

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Rather than saying 'I hate mess', it might draw more compassion to say, 'mess terrifies me as a harbinger of catastrophe'.

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I thought about societies where exceptional fortunes are built up in industries with very little connection to out sincere and significant needs, industries where it is difficult to escape from the disparity between a seriousness of means and a triviality of ends.

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The challenge for a human now is to be more interesting to another than his or her smartphone.

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One kind of good book should leave you asking: how did the author know that about me?

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On paper, being good sounds great but a lot depends on the atmosphere of the workplace or community we live in. We tend to become good or bad depending on the cues sent out within a particular space.

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A successful work will draw out the features capable of exciting a sense of beauty and interest in the spectator.

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By travelling across frontiers, on horseback and in the imagination, Montaigne invited us to to exchange local prejudices and the self division they induced for less constraining identities as citizens of the world.

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If one felt successful, there'd be so little incentive to be successful.

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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.

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The architects who benefit us most maybe those generous enough to lay aside their claims to genius in order to devote themselves to assembling graceful but predominantly unoriginal boxes. Architecture should have the confidence and the kindness to be a little boring.

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Travel agents would be wiser to ask us what we hope to change about our lives rather than simply where we wish to go.

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Paying tax should be framed as a glorious civic duty worthy of gratitude - not a punishment for making money.

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We may seek a fortune for no greater reason than to secure the respect and attention of people who would otherwise look straight through us.

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There are selections so acute that they come to define a place, with the result that we can no longer travel through that landscape without being reminded of what a great artist noticed there.

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The largest part of what we call 'personality' is determined by how we've opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness".

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It is no coincidence that the Western attraction to sublime landscapes developed at precisely the moment when traditional beliefs in God began to wane.

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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.

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If cynicism and love lie at opposite ends of a spectrum, do we not sometimes fall in love in order to escape the debilitating cynicism to which we are prone? Is there not in every coup de foudre a certain willful exaggeration of the qualities of the beloved, an exaggeration which distracts us from our habitual pessimism and focuses our energies on someone in whom we can believe in a way we have never believed in ourselves?

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Don't despair: despair suggests you are in total control and know what is coming. You don't - surrender to events with hope.

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