Alain de Botton Quotes, Happiness Quotes, Emotional Quotes

Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect.

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The mind may be reluctant to think properly when thinking is all it is supposed to do; the task can be as paralysing as having to tell a joke or mimic an accent on demand.

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...if the beginnings of love and amorous politics are equally rosy, then the ends may be equally bloody.

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Love is an incurable disease. In love, there is permanent suffering. Those who love and those who are happy are not the same.

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I was uncomfortable writing fiction. My love was the personal essay rather than the novel.

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Every realistic picture represents a choice as to which features of reality should be given prominence; no painting ever captures the whole.

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Happiness is impossible for longer than 15 minutes. We are the descendants of creatures who, above all else, worried.

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Anxiety is the handmaiden of contemporary ambition.

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It is striking how much more seriously we are likely to be taken after we have been dead a few centuries.

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In Britain, because I live here, I can also run into problems of envy and competition. But all this is just in a day's work for a writer. You can't put stuff out there without someone calling you a complete fool. Oh, well.

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It is in dialogue with pain that many beautiful things acquire their value. Acquaintance with grief turns out to be one of the more unusual prerequisites of architectural appreciation. We might, quite aside from all other requirements, need to be a little sad before buildings can properly touch us.

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You normally have to be bashed about a bit by life to see the point of daffodils, sunsets and uneventful nice days.

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to design means forcing ourselves to unlearn what we believe we already know, patiently to take apart the mechanisms behind our reflexes and to acknowledge the mystery and stupefying complexity of everyday gestures like switching off a light of turning on a tap

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It seems the only way to write a half decent book is to worry oneself sick on an hourly basis that one is producing a complete disaster.

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[T]he unsympathetic assessments we make of others are usually the result of nothing more sinister than our habit of looking at them in the wrong way, through lenses clouded by distraction, exhaustion and fear, which blind us to the fact that they are really, despite a thousand differences, just altered versions of ourselves: fellow fragile, uncertain, flawed beings likewise craving love and in urgent need of forgiveness.

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A 'good job' can be both practically attractive while still not good enough to devote your entire life to.

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The price we have paid for expecting to be so much more than our ancestors is a perpetual anxiety that we are far from being all we might be.

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What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of disappointing others.

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The real issue is not whether baking biscuits is meaningful, but the extent to which the activity can seem to be so after it has been continuously stretched and subdivided across five thousand lives.

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Our sense of what is valuable will hence be radically distorted if we must perpetually condemn as tedious everything we lack, simply because we lack it.

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