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What is fascinating about marriage is why anyone wants to get married.

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The origins and travels of our purchases remain matters of indifference, although to the more imaginative at least a slight dampness at the bottom of a carton, or an obscure code printed along a computer cable, may hint at processes of manufacture and transport nobler and more mysterious, more worthy of wonder and study, than the very goods themselves.

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Distress at losing an object can be as much a frustration at the intellectual mystery of the disappearance as about the loss itself.

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There is always the option of being emotionally lazy, that is, of quoting.

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These inventors were elevating the formulation of entrepreneurial ideas to the status of a visionary activity. Though forced to justify their efforts in the pragmatic language of venture capital, they were at heart utopian thinkers intent on transforming the world.

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The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.

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Instead of bringing back 1600 plants, we might return from our journeys with a collection of small unfêted but life-enhancing thoughts.

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What kills us isn't one big thing, but thousands of tiny obligations we can't turn down for fear of disappointing others.

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We are continuously challenged to discover new works of culture—and, in the process, we don’t allow any one of them to assume a weight in our minds.

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The more closely we analyze what we consider 'sexy,' the more clearly we will understand that eroticism is the feeling of excitement we experience at finding another human being who shares our values and our sense of the meaning of existence.

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The company of certain people may excite our generosity and sensitivity, while that of others awakens our competitiveness and envy.

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Rather than saying 'I hate mess', it might draw more compassion to say, 'mess terrifies me as a harbinger of catastrophe'.

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Dreams reveal we never quite get 'over' anything: it's all still in there somewhere.

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Not being understood may be taken as a sign that there is much in one to understand.

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The largest part of what we call 'personality' is determined by how we've opted to defend ourselves against anxiety and sadness".

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Most of our childhood is stored not in photos, but in certain biscuits, lights of day, smells, textures of carpet.

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Being funny should be an incidental byproduct of trying to get to something truthful, not a destination in itself.

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A lump rises in our throat at the sight of beauty from an implicit knowledge that the happiness it hints at is the exception.

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We depend on our surroundings obliquely to embody the moods and ideas we respect and then to remind us of them. We look to our buildings to hold us, like a kind of psychological mould, to a helpful vision of ourselves. We arrange around us material forms which communicate to us what we need — but are at constant risk of forgetting what we need — within. We turn to wallpaper, benches, paintings and streets to staunch the disappearance of our true selves.

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Without sex, we would be dangerously invulnerable. We might believe we were not ridiculous. We wouldn't know rejection and humiliation so intimately.

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